We had just finished setting up camp at the campground. You could see the ocean over the dunes and smell the salt air. While my wife and in-laws were ready for a break and a rest, the two boys were bouncing off the walls from the excitement of being here. The ocean was calling me too.
I called the kids and we went to check out the beach, deciding to walk barefoot so we wouldn’t have to carry anything with us. We gingerly picked our way across the hot asphalt as quickly as possible, and ran to the receding tide to seek its cool relief.
It was quickly evident that a cursory exploration of the beach wasn’t going to cut it. We needed to get wet. So we ran back to the RV to get changed in our swimsuits. The deal was, though, no stuff. No towels, toys or any other gear. It was just a quick dash to the beach, right guys?
We returned to the water with gusto.
We stood in the surf, trying to stay in one place as the waves crashed into us. The kids were having trouble withstanding the waves, and they were soon holding my hand in order to steady themselves. Because the water was only up to my knees, I wasn’t having any problem holding my ground, but then I got down on my knees, and could see why they were struggling. With the water now up to my middle, I was having more trouble with standing up against the waves.
And so we stood there in the surf, pretending to be on a ship in a storm, with the waves washing over the deck and lashing out against us. We were fighting to hold the ship steady and stay on board, yelling out at the storm, “Is that all you’ve got? Give us your best shot!” And another wave would roll over and try to push us from our spot.
Then 1 Cor 15:58 came to mind,
Stand firm. Let nothing move you.
and this whole scene suddenly became a parable of my role as a father in lives of my sons:
I cannot completely protect them from the forces and influences in the world that come against them. There are battles that they must fight and stand firm against. However, I need to get down on their level and stand with them and hold their hand. I need to act as an anchor for them, representing Jesus the Rock, so that they can stand firm in a storm by holding onto me. And I need to be an encouragement and example to them, cheering them on and sharing my successes and failures in standing firm.
As this spiritual truth became evident to me, I started shouting to the waves, “We shall not be moved! We shall not be moved!” The boys joined in the chorus, unaware of my revelation, but spurred in their determination to hold their ground.
I treasure that moment.